hi!!! welcome to my blog! i write to you as i write to myself. some things are realities from lessons learned, some things i am speaking into existence, and some are written from the trenches themselves some days it feels like if i don’t get my thoughts out of my head and onto paper, my brain might explode i created heldbyavery, my instagram account, in early 2025 it marked the beginning of a huge transition. it was when i began to crawl out of the skin i was living in and s

sometimes i forget that i can write about things as i am still learning them as i am still learning myself for a while now, i have felt as though i am living in the in between not where i was, but not quite where i am going and although i have made enormous strides, from where i was a few months ago to where i am now i still find myself thinking i am not quite there some fully formed mythical version of myself not quite ready to share all that i have learned because surely i